So, i’m in love with this guy from our office, he is my team made, i made post earlier in this reddit here. We are in relationship in like last 2 months and everything looks great, we are very close & intimate, i also lost my virginity with him .  

I had only asked him how many gf he had before me, he told me  “it was one, but not a proper relationship but we were close” i hadn’t asked anything in detail, as he hadn’t asked me anything about my past, it felt like he was more focus on present than past or anything else . 

Last Saturday, i was at his apartment, going through and enjoying movies and spending time together, i was going through his laptop for something and i found this folder travel, i opened, there were hundreds of photos of him and his friends, nothing unusual . I was just curious as he never posts anything on insta or anywhere, I was amazed to look at his old photos, how different he looked with time. I found this particular folder “Manali”, he had been there, he told me earlier but as i was going through photos, he was with his best female friend and just after couple of photos, they were kissing, i just couldn’t believe it, i went through more photos, there were more photos holding hands and kissing and stuff like that. Those photos were at least 5 years old, before covid . 

I was mad at him and felt like being cheated, i went to him, confronted about photos and he explained me everything . Both of them were new joinee and fresher in their first company back in 2017, they never had proper relationship, he had asked her out but she didn’t wanted to get into relationship as she didn’t have father and her mom were really strict. they became best friends. both of them changed companies, they had feelings for each other, she was receiving proposals for arrange marriages, she kinda felt like most of the boys she had seen  had relationship or had enjoyed their life, she kinda felt like FOMO, so she contacted my bf and they kinda had a short period relationship phase, they went to manali and both of them loose their virginity there, after couple of months, she finalized a rich boy and went for arrange marriage . 

It won’t be much big deal for me if it was over but both of them are still in contact, when i had seen them at restaurents last time before we were in realtionship, they had hugged and it was really tight. I had felt like both of them were in love, i felt his bestie married her husband just because of money.

I felt like she used my bf to get what she wanted out of her life. I kinda felt sorry for him, knowing his family background and his condition at that time, he was lonely . he didn’t told me this this part at confrontation to get sympathy, he had told me this thing like 2 months ago when we were talking about his family and all

I don’t like her presence in my BF’s life,  i feel really jealous of her to take away my first time moment with him and using him like that . I am not sure what to do! i want to go straight to him and ask him to broke off all relationship with her but i know i can’t do it . 

I really love him, he has multiple qualities that i had never seen in single person,I am not saying that he is perfect, he has his own flaws but i want to take care of him, be with him and if everything work well marry him, we also belong to same cast so i don’t see being married will be big problem for our families. I just don’t know what to do with her bestie.